Pregnacy Insomnia:Why You’re Waking Up at 3am in Pregnancy & How to Get Back to Sleep
- lpellow1

- Apr 22
- 2 min read
Waking up at 3am in pregnancy and unable to get back to sleep?
You’re exhausted…
But your mind is suddenly wide awake.
Thoughts start creeping in about birth, baby, life, or completely random things that didn’t bother you during the day.
If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone.
Pregnancy insomnia is incredibly common in pregnancy and it can feel really frustrating when all you want is rest.
Why does pregnancy insomnia happen?
There isn’t just one reason, it’s usually a combination of a few things:
1.Hormones
Pregnancy hormones can affect your sleep cycles and make you more likely to wake during the night.
2.Physical discomfort
As your body changes, it can be harder to get comfortable, especially in the second and third trimester.
3.A busy nervous system
Even if you feel calm during the day, your mind often processes everything at night.
This can leave you feeling:
Restless
Alert
Unable to fully switch off
The frustrating part…
The more you lie there thinking:
“Why can’t I sleep?”
“I need to be asleep right now”
…the more awake your body becomes.
This isn’t your fault, it’s how your nervous system responds to pressure and stress.

What can actually help?
You don’t need complicated routines.
Small, gentle shifts can make a big difference.
1. Slow your breathing
Your breath is one of the quickest ways to calm your body.
Try this:
Inhale for 4
Exhale for 6
Focus on making your exhale longer than your inhale.
This helps signal to your body that it’s safe to rest.
2. Soften your body
Notice where you’re holding tension, is it in your jaw, shoulders, hands?
Gently release it.
Even small physical relaxation can help your mind follow.
3. Take the pressure off sleep
Instead of thinking “I need to sleep”
Try:
“I’m just going to rest”
This reduces the stress response that keeps you awake.

You’re not doing anything wrong
Broken sleep in pregnancy is so common.
It doesn’t mean:
you’re doing something wrong
or that your body is failing you
It just means your body and mind need a little more support right now.
You don’t have to just “put up with it”
If this is happening regularly, having something to guide you can make all the difference.
Inside my pregnancy yoga and relaxation sessions, I focus on helping you:
Calm your nervous system
Release physical tension
Learn how to properly switch off
Not just during the day, but for when you need it most at night.

Start gently with a £5 taster
If you’d like to try it for yourself, you can start with my pregnancy yoga taster session for £5
It’s a simple way to:
experience the techniques
see how your body responds
and start feeling calmer straight away
(And you’ll get that £5 back if you come back and book the full library).
A few simple sleep tips to try tonight
Before you go, here are a few extra gentle tips:
Keep lights low if you wake up
Avoid checking the time
Use pillows to support your body comfortably
Try a short relaxation instead of lying in silence
You deserve to feel rested and supported in your pregnancy 🤍
And sometimes, the smallest changes can make the biggest difference.




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